It is Saturday, 9:30 in the morning. I’m wearing yoga shorts, t-shirt and sandals. Together with my wife, we make our way to the 4th floor rooftop of a non-glitzy West Hollywood hotel tucked into a quiet neighborhood. Once outside, the world falls into place. Gigantic blue sky, sunshine, comfortable temperature of 70 degrees (21C), warm gentle wind, and birds singing their songs.
After removing our sandals and unrolling mats, we join eight other yoga devotees, each of whom are lying face up toward the heavens, smiling. Smiling because this is as good as it gets. This is life at its indulgent finest. This is complete and total inner peace amidst external tranquility.
Settling in, body feeling heavy, feeling like I could return to restful slumber, the instructor appears. The yogi. The Omar.
If you can, try to imagine a mix between Eddie Murphy, the comedian, and Buddha. The result would be Omar, former New Yorker, now plying his craft in L.A.
Omar is not only an amazing yoga instructor but also the funniest yogi I’ve met. He had me laughing so hard at some points during class that I had to stop posing and simply let the side-splitting laughs run their course. And I’m not talking little chuckles here. No, it was more like face contortions, body convulsions, stop, please stop, kind of laughter.
But it wasn’t like Omar was bent on doing a stand up routine. First and foremost, he’s a yogi imparting his teaching of yoga. It’s just that, while leading us through poses, he shared his gift of humor. Humor is part of his nature. And thankfully for all of us, he chose to share.
Now, if Omar had led the class similar to other yogis, providing good instruction, tossing in spiritual sayings, my experience would have still been enjoyable. But the fact that Omar generously added another dimension of himself, one not strictly associated with teaching yoga, made the class memorable. And after class, I told him of my appreciation for his efforts, for his being, for sharing his humour with all of us … because this was my way of giving back what I could to Omar. And he was gracious enough to accept my gift.
Every Choice Has Consequences
I’m super thankful for Omar choosing to share his gifts for teaching and humor. And I also recognize that I would not have met Omar if I didn’t make certain financial choices for myself.
If I didn’t spend moderately and within my budget, consistently contribute to savings, and wisely invest my money, I would not have been fortunate enough to travel to California and enjoy a vacation.
The thing is, this vacation was planned well in advance, and I made a fair calculation as to how much I was willing to spend.
To remain within my spending parameters:
- Points accumulated on a credit card were used to pay for airline tickets (except that payment of taxes, which was a few hundred dollars, came out of my pocket as the credit card companies don’t allow points to be used to pay for taxes);
- The least expensive rental car was reserved because smaller cars are less expensive and require less gas and there’s no reason for me to rent anything other than a small car;
- We ate at restaurants a couple of times but for the most part bought food for snacks and meals at Trader Joes because it gets tiresome and needlessly expensive going to restaurants;
- We stayed at moderately priced but pleasant hotels for the three days, two nights we were in Palm Springs …
(okay, I know what you’re thinking … Palm Springs? Really? Why? I’m not interested in shopping or getting a facelift, and I don’t golf – it’s not really a sport … it’s mind numbingly boring … golf courses are horrible for the environment, a ridiculous drain on water reserves – oops, excuse my mini anti-golf rant. Okay, here’s the thing about Palm Springs that I focused on: the scenery. Stunningly beautiful, magnificent scenery with the mountains, desert flora, and spectacular hiking trails!)
- While spending a few nights in Joshua Tree National Park (https://www.nps.gov/jotr/index.htm), we camped, not because it cost less but moreso because it was absolutely amazing to camp in the midst of the Mohave Desert’s unbelievable beauty and stare wondrously at a night time sky overflowing with stars.
Shape Your Life
Following the Middle Way, balancing spending against saving and investing, I put myself in a position where I could enjoy a fantastic get away. Consciously choosing to exercise discipline when it comes to spending, saving and investing, and knowing I was saving for a specific goal, I reaped the reward: memorable experiences with people, and feeling awed by Mother Nature’s extraordinary artistry.